Jesus loves us love others like He Loves them

Considering others interests as higher than your own, as Paul said, is the key to unleashing the perfect trust of the Holy Spirit in you, who sends you forward to face the people. When we get over ourselves and focus on loving and helping and praying for and saving other people, which is the same as loving God, then Holy Spirit is no longer grieved by us ignoring Him, but is pleased with us soaring to new heights in Him.